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00:00The point I want to make to you today is that if you are told that no one has ever hurt you then you will find it strange.
00:13Of course.
00:14They hurt you with their actions, with their words, with all these things.
00:19And the intellectuals, many intellectuals say that no one ever hurts you with their words and actions.
00:29You get hurt.
00:31Because you have learnt that I have to be hurt by this.
00:36For example, if someone abuses you, you have learnt that it is an abuse.
00:42And if he is abusing me, I feel it.
00:46And if you have learnt that the person who is abusing you is spoiling his own mouth,
00:50he is spoiling his own language, he is telling me about his upbringing.
00:54Right.
00:55So he is not telling me.
00:56He is just opening his mouth to show how he has been brought up.
01:00Then you will not get hurt.
01:01Wow.
01:02Like if someone abuses you in another language which you do not understand, it does not affect you at all.
01:06You will not feel bad.
01:07And many times it happens that when you do not understand the language, your first response is yes, yes.
01:16By the way, why does someone deserve to be hurt?
01:19Okay, this is the thing.
01:20People are living their lives.
01:22They are telling people what they feel, what their upbringing is, what their understanding is,
01:27what their thinking is, what their style is.
01:29They are showing you.
01:30Yes.
01:31You have to decide whether you are getting hurt by that thing or not.
01:35For example, there are many teachers that you ask them questions, they get angry.
01:40Hmm.
01:41They feel that you are challenging me in front of the children.
01:44How dare you?
01:45Now he is saying in his heart that he has embarrassed me by asking this question.
01:48Because his scope is not so big that he can say to that child that I do not know the answer to this.
01:53I will tell you tomorrow or day after tomorrow.
01:55This is the sign of a great teacher.
01:57You remember that this is a litmus test that if someone is giving you a very long, broad lecture,
02:03explaining and you asked the question and he is saying that I do not know the answer to this.
02:08Believe him.
02:09Pick up his shoes and give them to him.
02:11Wash his feet and drink.
02:12He is a true teacher.
02:14Okay, the point I was trying to make was,
02:16save yourself from suffering.
02:18See, wherever you work, it can happen.
02:20If you are scolded,
02:22if someone says something to you,
02:24you are at home, it can happen with your wife.
02:26Right.
02:27Do you know where this happens the most?
02:28Where?
02:29We have some preconceived notions.
02:31I want to talk to the children about this.
02:33We have already conceived it.
02:35We know that our parents,
02:37we are youngsters,
02:39we know about IT,
02:40we know about today's requirements.
02:42These are old people, they do not know.
02:43Okay, they do not know at all.
02:45Okay, keeping this notion in your mind,
02:49you think that everything they say is wrong.
02:52Sitting at home,
02:53everything the old parents say is wrong.
02:56Because they do not know what the requirements of today's times are.
02:59You keep that notion aside.
03:01They are not talking to you about IT.
03:03When they tell you to leave your tablet,
03:06your phone,
03:07leave these things,
03:08listen to me,
03:09do not look at these things,
03:10do not do this,
03:11they are not talking about IT.
03:12They are not talking about the new era.
03:14They are talking to you
03:15and there is definitely something behind it.
03:18Not everyone tells you this.
03:20And be thankful to God
03:22and pray that
03:23may the people who scold me be safe.
03:27Amen.
03:28Because as long as the people who scold you are safe,
03:31then you are climbing the ladder of life.
03:33And as soon as you do not have anyone to scold,
03:36then believe me,
03:37the steps of your ladder have ended.
03:40And you could only come this far,
03:42you could not go any further.
03:43But Mr. Arun,
03:44things are usually interconnected.
03:46Like you talked about being thick-skinned,
03:48that you stop getting hurt by people's words.
03:51If you become this thick-skinned,
03:53then the things that should affect you,
03:57they will not affect you.
03:58You will not even be sensitive.
04:00You should be sensitive in a lot of matters.
04:03Okay, the way you are thick-skinned,
04:06there is an aspect of sensitivity in it.
04:09What is that aspect?
04:10Usually people think that
04:11a thick-skinned person is a stubborn person.
04:13That whatever he says,
04:14he is not affected.
04:15That's right.
04:16How are you taking that effect?
04:18For example,
04:19if I tell you where the past is,
04:22then it is where that man or woman
04:24or man said something.
04:25Absolutely.
04:26That is the past.
04:27Was.
04:28Yes.
04:29He said what he had to say.
04:31Absolutely.
04:32Even if you want,
04:33he cannot come back to you.
04:35First of all,
04:36have mercy on yourself.
04:39Become sensitive.
04:41Become so sensitive
04:43that you talk to yourself.
04:45Look,
04:46tell yourself that
04:47the thing is
04:48you don't deserve this.
04:50Wow.
04:51Or you don't deserve
04:52that because of that person's bad tongue
04:54or because of his behavior,
04:56you get hurt.
04:57If his upbringing is bad,
04:59then you are not the reason.
05:01Have mercy on yourself.
05:02Love yourself.
05:03That man,
05:04this is not your fault.
05:05This is his fault.
05:07And if you feel like crying,
05:09then let yourself cry.
05:10Wow.
05:11Cry once.
05:12Wow.
05:13If you feel like
05:14hugging someone,
05:15then go and hug your mother,
05:17your father,
05:18anyone.
05:19Cry.
05:20Talk.
05:21But once for all,
05:23once,
05:24take that thing out of your heart,
05:26then you are entering the future.
05:28The past is left behind.
05:30Move forward.
05:31Don't look back.
05:32It will remain the same.
05:33And it wants to stop you.
05:35You don't have to stop.
05:36You have moved forward.
05:37Very good.
05:38Wow.
05:39Outstanding.
05:40Wow.
05:41Wow.
05:42Gogin,
05:43a person said,
05:44he said,
05:45it's okay.
05:46My past is left behind.
05:47He said,
05:48I will do it in the future too.
05:49Look,
05:50if you want me
05:51to never get hurt,
05:52then I will give you
05:53a bad news today.
05:54Tomorrow,
05:55day after tomorrow,
05:56your whole life
05:57is going to be hurt.
05:58Why?
05:59The reason is that
06:00when you want to spend your life,
06:02the whole world
06:03cannot be yours.
06:04Yes.
06:05Every person wants
06:06that everything should be about me.
06:08I should be sitting
06:09in his place.
06:10Right.
06:11I should be in that place.
06:12This car should be with me.
06:13You will keep feeling hurt.
06:15Okay,
06:16what you have to do now
06:17is that you have to
06:18come out of that hurt.
06:19So first,
06:20as I told you,
06:21you can cry.
06:22If you feel like crying,
06:23the second way
06:24is to forgive
06:25the person
06:26who has hurt you.
06:27One way of forgiving
06:28is that
06:29you are not able to forgive.
06:30You say,
06:31okay,
06:32I forgive you.
06:33And Allah will ask him.
06:34Yes.
06:35It happens.
06:36Allah says,
06:37you are not able to forgive.
06:38Another way is
06:39to forgive with your heart
06:40that I am able to forgive
06:41but I am not able to forgive.
06:42There are some people
06:43who say,
06:44my ego,
06:45I have a lot of self-respect.
06:46If someone says
06:47such things,
06:48I cannot tolerate it.
06:49But believe me,
06:50it is not only
06:51tolerable
06:52but also
06:53manageable.
06:54Wow.
06:55If it is not manageable,
06:56then he will say,
06:57I am quiet,
06:58leave me alone.
06:59I have to answer him.
07:00Yes.
07:01This happens.
07:02This is true.
07:03So,
07:04it is better
07:05than falling
07:06in your own eyes
07:07that you keep
07:08your self-respect
07:09at a place
07:10where you know
07:11that if I cannot
07:12say anything to him,
07:13then I will not
07:14say anything to him either.
07:15You see,
07:16on the road,
07:17you will always see
07:18that the car driver
07:19is a very rich man
07:20and other people
07:21say that
07:22if he is saying
07:23something,
07:24then he should
07:25keep saying it.
07:26So,
07:27learn to trust
07:28Allah.
07:29Absolutely.
07:30Look towards
07:31the future.
07:32Have mercy
07:33on yourself.
07:34Learn to
07:35forgive people.
07:36First of all,
07:37have mercy
07:38on those
07:39on whom you
07:40have mercy
07:41otherwise
07:42you can
07:43even take
07:44revenge.
07:45Then you
07:46have the right
07:47to say that
07:48I have
07:49forgiven
07:50you.
07:51And then
07:52that day will
07:53come when
07:54sympathies
07:55will be born.
07:56We will
07:57see each other
07:58and smile
07:59and understand
08:00that you
08:01are also
08:02fighting a war
08:03and I
08:04am also
08:05fighting a war
08:06but this
08:07war is not
08:08against each
08:09other.
08:10This war
08:11is the
08:12war of
08:13our own
08:14life.
08:15Sir,
08:16the talk
08:17has become
08:18too long.
08:19We
08:20will
08:21meet
08:22again.

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