#21. I Don't Want To Be Married (Part 1)
- 7 months ago
Originally uploaded: July 18th, 2020
Youtube link: https://youtu.be/bc2oeBCKYOQ
I do curse in this.
The video cuts me off as I was saying the first of several quotes. These videos are turning out different than I thought it would be. Screw it. Perfection ain't worth it anyways! Give me a day or so for part 2.
1. I never been desperate or thirsty. A guy doesn't define my worth.
2. I hate how all my life, especially in the Catholic church, I was told that the only thing I was supposed to go after was a guy, and the only roles I'm supposed to take on is a wife and mother. Not happening over here.
3. It's a turn off when guys are obsessed to the point where I'm their whole world. I'm a human being. Not something to chase or a notch under your belt. Instead of messaging me 20 times on social media, give back. Have a purpose. That's more attractive than 20 hey text messages. Get a life. Stop chasing people. Do what you love, and you will attract the right people in your life, and maybe the person who likes you will like you back. Be ok if they don't like you back romantically. Value yourself and have some self respect so you don't have to feel attached. Instead of looking for love outside yourself, love yourself first. Be the star in your own movie, and don't be so desperate for a cameo in someone else's project.
3a. My love language is giving me the space to life my life and not smothering the hell out of me. I'll gladly give a guy the same space in return. I'll never call a guy or anyone 8, 9, 10 times in a day. That s*** is crazy. 1 or 2 texts to check in will do it. But not 100 texts.
4. I never went to a wedding questioning my singleness. I never over posted my relationships on social media. I've always been happy for my friends and family who found the love of their lives. I can't see myself ever getting married at this point. I refuse to get married to front appearances, maintain a fake image, to keep up with the joneses, or for the status quo. What you see is what you get. I can do bad by myself.
5. I've had great relationships. But I've also gotten burned. If I get married to a great guy, I'll invite you. But don't count on it. I'm not expecting anyone to save me.
6. Currently looking for ways to increase my networth even further. I've done great but I'm looking for some more challenges. If you have any business ideas, comment. The most ideas I'll ever pursue at 1 time varies. LOL. It's a Gemini thing.
Here's some articles just in case you don't want to watch.
“Why I Don’t Want To Get Married” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/sNi1JmC5g8
“Can we be just friends?” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/3sbg7Rxlf8
“When Healthy Solitude Becomes Isolation” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/SPHZZkpTs8
“Why You Should Be Your #1 Supporter” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/GvguM1wSs8
“I’m at Peace About These 2 Things” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/5UBW7eKlf8
Youtube link: https://youtu.be/bc2oeBCKYOQ
I do curse in this.
The video cuts me off as I was saying the first of several quotes. These videos are turning out different than I thought it would be. Screw it. Perfection ain't worth it anyways! Give me a day or so for part 2.
1. I never been desperate or thirsty. A guy doesn't define my worth.
2. I hate how all my life, especially in the Catholic church, I was told that the only thing I was supposed to go after was a guy, and the only roles I'm supposed to take on is a wife and mother. Not happening over here.
3. It's a turn off when guys are obsessed to the point where I'm their whole world. I'm a human being. Not something to chase or a notch under your belt. Instead of messaging me 20 times on social media, give back. Have a purpose. That's more attractive than 20 hey text messages. Get a life. Stop chasing people. Do what you love, and you will attract the right people in your life, and maybe the person who likes you will like you back. Be ok if they don't like you back romantically. Value yourself and have some self respect so you don't have to feel attached. Instead of looking for love outside yourself, love yourself first. Be the star in your own movie, and don't be so desperate for a cameo in someone else's project.
3a. My love language is giving me the space to life my life and not smothering the hell out of me. I'll gladly give a guy the same space in return. I'll never call a guy or anyone 8, 9, 10 times in a day. That s*** is crazy. 1 or 2 texts to check in will do it. But not 100 texts.
4. I never went to a wedding questioning my singleness. I never over posted my relationships on social media. I've always been happy for my friends and family who found the love of their lives. I can't see myself ever getting married at this point. I refuse to get married to front appearances, maintain a fake image, to keep up with the joneses, or for the status quo. What you see is what you get. I can do bad by myself.
5. I've had great relationships. But I've also gotten burned. If I get married to a great guy, I'll invite you. But don't count on it. I'm not expecting anyone to save me.
6. Currently looking for ways to increase my networth even further. I've done great but I'm looking for some more challenges. If you have any business ideas, comment. The most ideas I'll ever pursue at 1 time varies. LOL. It's a Gemini thing.
Here's some articles just in case you don't want to watch.
“Why I Don’t Want To Get Married” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/sNi1JmC5g8
“Can we be just friends?” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/3sbg7Rxlf8
“When Healthy Solitude Becomes Isolation” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/SPHZZkpTs8
“Why You Should Be Your #1 Supporter” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/GvguM1wSs8
“I’m at Peace About These 2 Things” by Alesha Peterson https://link.medium.com/5UBW7eKlf8