STREETTANGO ADVENTURES COPENHAGEN Mar.2019
- 5 years ago
2019-03-11 - 2019-03-14
A lady with whom I had a great time dancing, last time I visited Copenhagen, is longing for the same connection dancing but it doesn't work out this time.
So I change roles by changing the embrace enjoying to be lead by her.
She insists to be lead by me though, but again, loses the connection trying to follow my movement, rather than connecting to it.
Interrupting my movement I try to help her to find back this connection but when it keeps repeating itself I just try to create funny moments by making her bump into my movement.
She doesn't seem to think that's funny at all.
I suggest that she leads me again but she insists that I lead.
I don't feel like leading anymore so we decide to take a break.
When we sit down she expresses her anger about this unhappy ending I seem to be creating and that we should please each other.
As I don't like pleasing others, I refuse my task to please her.
After adding time to her parking meter she seems more relaxed, but whenI l refuse to lead her again, she reacts furious.
I suggest her to lead me and we more or less stay put embracing each other.
When I look at her she still seems to be angry but unlike before when I used to feel guilty about not living up to expectations of others,
this time I felt an opportunity coming up to achieve real friendship
by confronting her with her expectations towards me that don't add up with her values.
Traveling the world without depending on money, enjoying free pleasures worldwide.
https://fpww.nl
A lady with whom I had a great time dancing, last time I visited Copenhagen, is longing for the same connection dancing but it doesn't work out this time.
So I change roles by changing the embrace enjoying to be lead by her.
She insists to be lead by me though, but again, loses the connection trying to follow my movement, rather than connecting to it.
Interrupting my movement I try to help her to find back this connection but when it keeps repeating itself I just try to create funny moments by making her bump into my movement.
She doesn't seem to think that's funny at all.
I suggest that she leads me again but she insists that I lead.
I don't feel like leading anymore so we decide to take a break.
When we sit down she expresses her anger about this unhappy ending I seem to be creating and that we should please each other.
As I don't like pleasing others, I refuse my task to please her.
After adding time to her parking meter she seems more relaxed, but whenI l refuse to lead her again, she reacts furious.
I suggest her to lead me and we more or less stay put embracing each other.
When I look at her she still seems to be angry but unlike before when I used to feel guilty about not living up to expectations of others,
this time I felt an opportunity coming up to achieve real friendship
by confronting her with her expectations towards me that don't add up with her values.
Traveling the world without depending on money, enjoying free pleasures worldwide.
https://fpww.nl