Dr. Bharat Sangani - Moon at Noon Theory
- 5 years ago
Moon at Noon Theory
hi there today's blog is about to think
before you speak a rule of two seconds a
lot of you know my rule about two emails
now this is the rule about two seconds
so what does this mean all of us to know
that words once spoken cannot we take it
back into it they trace it back and to
get back to the original ground where we
were before the words were spoken takes
a lot of efforts so what can we do so we
don't end up with a situation will be
don't you to swallow our own words we
all have been with situations where
after saying a few things I go back and
think I wish had not sent them the rules
of two emails whoops you avoid that the
outlook rule of pushing the send button
twice helps you that and now the rule of
two seconds is going to help essentially
what rule of two seconds means that
whenever you are responding to a
the question which has a possibility that
the individual may interpret
friendly or where may make that other
individual uncomfortable just think in
your mind one thousand one one thousand
do and that is the rule of two seconds that
is essentially two seconds in two
seconds just think whatever you say what
the impact is going to create it is that the
the impact you want to create or not is it
about your impulsive nature of getting
the truth straight or your beliefs
straight or proving the other person
wrong what is the intent of what you're
going to deliver and once you decide the
intent the delivery becomes a lot
simpler a lot of times just telling
somebody that he is wrong is not what we
wanted we may prove the person wrong but
we will lose him as a friend we'll lose
him as a family
we'll lose him as our well-wisher if
that's
think about talking about difficult situations
like playing chess in chess you don't
play the next move without thinking the
2 moves forward so the best way to think
about talking to somebody about a
the difficult situation is to think if I
answer it this way what will be the two
next steps that I believe to be
answering for this particular answer
then I'm going to give what response in
my going to be both and based on that is
where I want to land now but I'm talking
it feels like oh my god she's gonna take
a long time to think but I'm telling you
once you get used to it it is not going
to take that long and trust me
within two seconds you will be avoiding
a lot of broken relationships a lot of
broken friendships and then you come out
ahead by avoiding difficult situations
that you cannot replace Mack please give
it a try
rule of two seconds think before you
speak will help you.
hi there today's blog is about to think
before you speak a rule of two seconds a
lot of you know my rule about two emails
now this is the rule about two seconds
so what does this mean all of us to know
that words once spoken cannot we take it
back into it they trace it back and to
get back to the original ground where we
were before the words were spoken takes
a lot of efforts so what can we do so we
don't end up with a situation will be
don't you to swallow our own words we
all have been with situations where
after saying a few things I go back and
think I wish had not sent them the rules
of two emails whoops you avoid that the
outlook rule of pushing the send button
twice helps you that and now the rule of
two seconds is going to help essentially
what rule of two seconds means that
whenever you are responding to a
the question which has a possibility that
the individual may interpret
friendly or where may make that other
individual uncomfortable just think in
your mind one thousand one one thousand
do and that is the rule of two seconds that
is essentially two seconds in two
seconds just think whatever you say what
the impact is going to create it is that the
the impact you want to create or not is it
about your impulsive nature of getting
the truth straight or your beliefs
straight or proving the other person
wrong what is the intent of what you're
going to deliver and once you decide the
intent the delivery becomes a lot
simpler a lot of times just telling
somebody that he is wrong is not what we
wanted we may prove the person wrong but
we will lose him as a friend we'll lose
him as a family
we'll lose him as our well-wisher if
that's
think about talking about difficult situations
like playing chess in chess you don't
play the next move without thinking the
2 moves forward so the best way to think
about talking to somebody about a
the difficult situation is to think if I
answer it this way what will be the two
next steps that I believe to be
answering for this particular answer
then I'm going to give what response in
my going to be both and based on that is
where I want to land now but I'm talking
it feels like oh my god she's gonna take
a long time to think but I'm telling you
once you get used to it it is not going
to take that long and trust me
within two seconds you will be avoiding
a lot of broken relationships a lot of
broken friendships and then you come out
ahead by avoiding difficult situations
that you cannot replace Mack please give
it a try
rule of two seconds think before you
speak will help you.