Women do not love men who are selfish and lack dedication

ADNAN OKTAR: I heard that there is a "Girls do not know to love" hashtag on Twitter. Of course they will not love you if you act like this. What girls look for in men are faith, bravery, courage and leaving worldly things behind. They want men to be completely free of egotistic and selfish behavior. Are you capable of dedicating your life to the one you love? You are not. Are you capable of exercising patience? You are not. Are you capable of showing compassion? You are not. Do you take care of her health and future? You do not. Do you appreciate her beauty? You do not. You immediately start quarrels, arguments etc. Girls are delicate, coy beings. You break her heart. Also, girls are quite sensitive about witlessness. Girls particularly value wit, wisdom. Wisdom fascinates women deeply. Once they notice a lack of wisdom in men, there is no turning back. It does not matter if they have a six-pack or big muscles. Women are only concerned with wisdom, profundity and passion. It does not make any difference for them, as long as the man is a normal person. But if they lack faith, profundity, wisdom, if they are impertinent, tactless, cynical, disrespectful and lack profound thinking, women immediately notice this and lose affection towards that man. Do they consciously decide to grow distant? They do not. It is their subconscious that makes the decision. And poor girls still try to hold onto their relationship. They do not want to lose their affection but their brain tells them "this is not going to happen. You are faced with a witless man. This is over." At that point, they give in to what their brain tells them. Brain is the only body part that people cannot overcome. One cannot love another when the brain rejects. When the brain diagnoses someone as "witless,", that is it. You can try to come up with any excuse or proof to convince your brain about how smart the boy is, but the brain believes what it sees. For example when we have a discussion with some people about religion and faith, they say "I do not agree with you, you are quite wrong." Do you realize what has happened to you at that moment? Your brain has agreed with me. I have conquered your brain. You can insist all you want. When you listen to me, you brain obeys my words, and once your brain is seized no matter how much you struggle, curse, or swear, your brain is in control now. That idea takes root in your brain. As a matter of fact, when I come across them a few years later, I see that they have started performing prayers. And they tell me "Teacher, I love you so much." Why? Because they cannot defy their brain. They struggle against it at first, but then they accept defeat as they cannot resist their brain.

 

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