Maybe the media blows it out of proportion but it seems like we spend a lot of time trying to change the people we love. Is there a way to remind yourself to love someone for who they are? Or is trying to improve them how you show your love? Our Experts discuss.

Meet the Experts:
Carin Goldstein
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/caringoldstein
http://www.BeTheSmartWife.com

Kelly Rudolph
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/kellyrudolph
http://www.PositiveWomenRock.com

Jen Duchene
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/jenduchene
http://www.JenDuchene.com

Marla Martenson
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/MarlaMartenson
http://www.marlamartenson.com

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